Should parents worry about their college-aged students engaging in binge drinking? The short answer is a resounding "yes!" Binge drinking affects 44% of college students nationwide.
When parents send their children off to college, they experience several emotions all at once: joy, sadness and often a disquieting sensation that maybe their little Johnnie or little Janie isn't as mature as they need to be to succeed in college. This fear inhibits many parents from "letting go."
The first few weeks the house may seem unusually quiet except for the occasional cell phone call or e-mail communication from the absent student. Hearing long-distance from the now "mature" college student with informative news about their new friends and/or the rigors of their college classes naturally calms the nerves of most parents. Still, for some parents, a whisper of future problems invades the serenity of the home front.
Without warning, the phone jars the parents awake in the middle of the night. The words coming from the other end of the line are alien and frightening: "Your son/daughter was found unconscious earlier this evening by a fellow classmate. He/she's been admitted to St. Mary Francis Hospital due to an apparent overdose of alcohol." The calm has been shattered by the reality of a real life nightmare.
This gut-wrenching scenario plays out in American households all too often. Below are statistics compiled by experts about the binge drinking crises on our college campuses.
So, how do parents approach the reality of binge drinking with your college student? Some of these answers might help. Call your student often to maintain a presence in their life. Take an interest in their lives and their challenges. Be available to them when they call or ask for assistance. Remind them that adulthood is not measured by how much alcohol that they can consume at any one sitting. Encourage them to have fun without over-indulging in alcohol. If your student acts irresponsibly and their college contacts you, don't over react. Be the voice of reason and support.